The power to love or fear can appear in all sorts of places. I was searching for it this past weekend when I called an old friend for coffee. I was nervous and excited to see him. The last time we saw each other I saw the power struggle surface. I loved this man and I was looking for someone to satisfy the loneliness I felt for the past few months. As the chat went on, something changed. Miraculously I noticed I only reached out for him in fear of being alone. Then the conversation shifted and it felt stale. We decided to part ways and I felt free. The true power appeared when I let go of the fear. The true power was present, it was love.